What should I do if my child is reluctant to go to kindergarten? How to make my child like going to kindergarten?

Kindergarten is a place that can develop children's learning ability, independence and communication skills. Children will resist kindergarten because they are not adapted to it, and parents will be worried, reluctant and anxious because of this. So how can we make children like going to kindergarten?

What to do if your child is reluctant to go to kindergarten

1. Increase the time the child spends alone

In many cases, it is not that the child can't live without his or her parents, but that the parents think that the child cannot live without them, so they always keep the child by their side, so that the child really cannot live without their parents. Therefore, parents should increase the time that the child spends alone, so that the child can slowly adapt to being alone.

2. Find suitable playmates for their children

Parents should help their children find suitable playmates. Partners have a great influence on children. The interaction between partners will make children mature and make up for the loss of separation from their parents.

3. Let children realize their own abilities

When children encounter difficulties, parents should not immediately help them, but should encourage children to solve problems by themselves and let children realize their own abilities.

How to make children like going to kindergarten

1. Gradually adapt.

Many kindergartens now organize parent-teacher meetings for new students before the start of school. At this time, parents can bring their children to the kindergarten. Get a preliminary understanding of what the kindergarten looks like and the environment of their class. Meet the new teacher in the class. If conditions permit, you can also let your children play in the kindergarten for a while. In this way, it will be easier for children to accept it from unfamiliarity to familiarity.

Nowadays, many kindergartens will have a time transition when they start school, such as half a day in the first week and a full day in the second week, which will make children feel a certain amount of transition.

2. Praise the new teacher.

Teacher, we are unfamiliar to the children. How about parents not asking too many questions about their children at home? Especially don't ask your children, how does the teacher treat you? Who do you treat well and whom do you treat badly? Have you ever scolded your children? Increase the psychological burden on children. . Parents can praise the class teacher unintentionally. For example, I heard that teacher XX in your class is very good at telling stories, teacher XX in your class sings very well, and likes to dance. You must also say that your teacher likes you very much, etc., so that the children will have a sense of trust and dependence on the teacher, and thus fall in love with the kindergarten.

3. Praise the children

For example, parents can ask at home, which child do you like best? Why? Who is your best friend who you usually hang out with? etc.

4. Bring toys

Because after all, it is a new environment, there will be some resistance. If parents always forcefully send their children there, it may have the opposite effect. In this case, we can let the child bring a familiar toy and clothes to allow her to make a transition.

What to do if your child cries when he first enters kindergarten

1. Take your child to visit the kindergarten before entering the kindergarten, so that the child can be familiar with the environment and develop a desire to come to the kindergarten.

2. Parents who have just entered the kindergarten can stay with them for 1-3 days, but they cannot stay with them for too long, otherwise the parents will be even more reluctant to let go of their children. Children who adapt quickly do not need companionship. Tell your children about the day-to-day activities in the kindergarten and communicate more with them. Meet new people.

3. Master the pick-up and drop-off time, let the children spend less time in the kindergarten, come late and leave early, and gradually lengthen the time in the kindergarten, so that the children think that they will see their parents soon after staying in the kindergarten for a while. No more mental panic.

4. Children can be allowed to bring a favorite toy at home into the kindergarten as a spiritual support. With the company of a familiar toy, they will no longer be afraid and lonely.

5. Contact the class teacher at any time to understand the situation of your child in the kindergarten. Cooperate with the teacher's work.