What does it mean when your girlfriend says you are stupid? How to reply when your girlfriend says you are stupid?

Girls are creatures with complex thoughts. They are easy to be happy and easy to be irritable. What does it mean if your girlfriend tells you that you are stupid? Is it angry, or is it just a catchphrase? At this time, are you very nervous about your girlfriend's mood? Next, let’s take a look at what it means when your girlfriend calls you stupid.

What does it mean when your girlfriend calls you stupid 

Meaning 1: She understands things that you can’t understand

It is undeniable that women’s minds are more delicate than men’s. What's more important is that women often see problems from a different perspective than men, so they can see problems that men cannot.

When a woman discovers the "truth" and you haven't discovered it yet, she will say to a man, "You are stupid."

Usually this happens when two people are discussing people and things around them, rather than actually referring to the man being stupid.

Meaning 2: I feel sorry for you

Some men are more loyal and honest, and are particularly prone to suffering losses. Even if you suffer a loss, you can only comfort yourself by saying, "Suffering a loss is a blessing." But women don't think so.

From a woman's perspective, "I am the only one who can bully my man." This gives rise to a feeling of resentment.

When a man thinks it’s okay to suffer a little loss, women will think the man is stupid when they find out.

Meaning 3: Really angry

When a man annoys a woman, he will also say "you are stupid". For example:

Man: Don't just say something

Woman:... (just don't say anything)

Man: What’s wrong with you

Woman: (ignoring)

Man: If you don’t say anything, I’ll leave

Woman: You’re stupid, you can’t even tell when I’m angry

When women are angry, they usually keep silent and wait for men to reflect on themselves. However, not all men can get women's emotions.

So, after you figure out what the woman means by saying this, you only need to reply "Yes, I am stupid" and remember to say it to her with a smile, so that you can adapt to the situation later.

For example:

Yes, I am stupid, but I just like you.

Yes, I am stupid, that’s why I fell in love with you.

Yes, I am stupid, that’s why I tolerate you.

How to reply when your girlfriend says you are stupid

The first scenario is, for example, you two are in a good mood, having fun, at least you are very happy, and your girlfriend says, "You are stupid," then you can use the form of earthy love words, at least it is affectionate. Reply to her and say: Yes, I am your big fool, and I will be your fool for life.

The second scenario is what your girlfriend says when she is in a bad mood. For example, you did not get what she said, and you did not satisfy her what she wanted. At this time, you can reply to her: Baby, I am really stupid when it comes to pleasing girls, but I care about you and love you very much.

The third scenario is when your girlfriend is extremely angry and calls you stupid outside or in public. I think there is no need to reply in this case. First of all, no matter what you did wrong, a girl shouldn't be so disrespectful to you in public, so don't reply or quarrel. After calming down, it's not too late to communicate slowly.

The fourth scenario is that she gives you hints at certain special moments, but you don't understand. Then she says, "You are stupid." At this time, you smile, but it must not be too obscene, and then do whatever you have to do.

How to make a girl happy

1. Be sweet in your mouth

The most convenient and economical way to make a girl happy is to "keep your posture low, your mouth sweet, and your face thick." Both boys and girls like to hear sweet words, even if they know they are "poison".

2. The legs and feet should be diligent and the person should be smart

Girls will not tell you directly what they want and what they don’t want. They like to let boys guess. If you have no experience and don’t know whether to choose A or B, then you might as well do both A and B. For example, if you don’t know whether girls like Xiao Long Bao or Pan-fried Bao, then buy both.

3. Be appropriately romantic

Why should you express your romantic cells appropriately? Creating romance requires a lot of money. If a girl cares about you, she will think you are extravagant and wasteful if you are romantic every day, so just show romance appropriately.

4. The icing on the cake is not as good as the timely help

If a girl lacks everything, then you will definitely not be able to make her happy if you give her lipstick or designer bags, because she can easily have these things.

So, you might as well give her something she needs. For example, companionship and taking her to try things she has never done before can make a person happy.